Her Fiance’s Mother’s Trying Out Her Gown The Reason Why Will Disturb You

Published on 02/16/2021
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She was unable to develop a great friendship with her fiancé’s mother, which is not entirely unusual. When she spotted her potential mother-in-law performing the unbelievable months before the wedding day, though, things took a turn for the worse!

Not Getting Along

Tracey went on Reddit to chat about the bizarre encounter she had months before getting married in Colombia at her next stop. Often, with Gina, her potential mother-in-law, she found it tough to see eye to eye.

Not Getting Along

Not Getting Along

She Was Caught

Through their disagreements, she still struggled to be the stronger guy, no matter what, but she couldn’t believe what she saw the elderly woman doing in her wedding gown… are you able to find out what it was?

She Was Caught

She Was Caught

Made For Each Other

It is definitely in the best interest to see your in-laws in a stable and safe partnership. Tracy hoped to reconnect with her future mother-in-law, particularly when Rick popped up the question after she said “yes”.

Made For Each Other

Made For Each Other

Help From Family & Friends

Everyone understands that it is important to arrange weddings properly, so a lot of pressure always builds up especially to the bride. The support of friends and family normally keeps some of the tension away from the pair.

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Help From Family & Friends

Not How They Expected

When you glance at the images on social media of Tracey and Rick, you would assume they’re a match made in heaven. They were prepared to start a future together before it all fell apart in just a snap…

Not How They Expected

Not How They Expected

Her Couture Wedding Dress

It is incredible that in this insane story, a wedding dress acted as the final straw, but that was what happened anyway. Of course, for the wedding day, this bride decided to have the most exquisite marriage outfit.

Her Couture Wedding Dress

Her Couture Wedding Dress

She Went Big

She wanted to go large and then get a gown from a designer fashion atelier named Galia Lahav. It was the location where Beyonce and other A-listers had dresses of their own, so it’s not shocking seeing that it cost her $11,000!

She Went Big

She Went Big

The Perfect Day

While this is a lot of money, because it’s one of the most crucial days of their lives, many brides see it as only appropriate. To finance their dream outfit, many individuals take out loans and even second mortgages on their houses!

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The Perfect Day

A Destination Wedding

There is nothing more enticing to certain couples than the thought of getting married next to their house. In Colombia, though, Rick and Tracey were willing to bind the knot. “In her post, she explained, “We are hoping to be married in Colombia in December and, of course, I’m beyond pumped.

A Destination Wedding

A Destination Wedding

She Wasn’t Happy

“It’s going to be a wedding destination for us, and I was very pleased that I was able to talk to him about having one.” There was one guy, though, who was not fond of the proposal…

She Wasn't Happy

She Wasn’t Happy

She Did Not Approve

Gina was swift to convey her rejection of the plan of getting married anywhere so far. Gina did not grasp, according to Tracey, that they chose to move to a spot where “no one… speaks English.”

She Did Not Approve

She Did Not Approve

Valid Concerns

In addition, she shared her worries regarding the extent of protection in Colombia as well as the costs that it will take. Tracey was not persuaded that she was overly worried about the logistics of the wedding, even though she had some legitimate questions about the proposal.

Valid Concerns

Valid Concerns

They Did Not Get Along

Tracey could not help but wonder that regardless of whether they had it, Gina may not have been on track with the ceremony. She realized in the end that they both weren’t getting along very well. The bride wrote, “I always knew she was not really my biggest fan.”

They Did Not Get Along

They Did Not Get Along

Didn’t See Eye-To-Eye

“She is polite and very ‘false’ friendly.” It appears, though, that it was not only a case of disconnection. There was an immense dilemma that pulled a wedge between these two women. So, what has it been?

Didn't See Eye To Eye

Didn’t See Eye-To-Eye

A Territorial Mother

It seems like, because of the dynamics they had with Rick, there was friction between Tracey and Gina. In his lifetime, his mother and fiancee became the two most significant people. Tracey felt his mother had been behaving differently with him.

A Terrirorial Mother

A Territorial Mother

A Weird Relationship

“She’s going to do things like sit on the lap of my fiancé, or tuck his hair behind his ear, and cut off his food for him,” she said. “I actually saw her feeding him on one occasion……in public.”

A Weird Relationship

A Weird Relationship

Setting Their Boundaries

It was so normal that before the day of the wedding, Tracey needed to figure this out. It was a positive thing because after Tracey spoke to Rick about it, Gina lowered her strange conduct.

Setting Their Boundaries

Setting Their Boundaries

Trying To Ignore Her

After this, the bride tried hard to hold Gina as far as possible out of the wedding preparations. However, Tracey claimed that “she complains to my fiance behind my back on how she’s being excluded.” It all came to a head on one particular day.

Trying To Ignore Her

Trying To Ignore Her

Changing It Up

Since Tracey told Rick about how his mother was acting, he knew that it was time to chat about it with Gina. He was, as you can tell, between a stone and a hard spot.

Changing It Up

Changing It Up

Maybe Things Will Improve

He realized, in the end, that it was necessary for him to step up if he wanted anything in the future to move smoothly. To the praise of my fiance, when I told him that I thought it was beyond strange, it never happened again,” said Tracey.”

Maybe Things Will Improve

Maybe Things Will Improve

Leading Up To It

The day that had changed everything about them began on a relaxed tone. Gina had just come over to see their new place. Since this new home meant a new chapter in their lives, both Tracey and Rick were happy to show her around.

Leading Up To It

Leading Up To It

Disappointing

Gina did not applaud them, though, and had only harsh words for the pair, in particular for Tracey. The bones she had to choose with the younger lady, if we believe the Reddit article, were totally uncalled for.

Disappointing

Disappointing

Bashing Her Ring

What was the very first concern about Tracey from Gina? It was the ring of marriage used by Rick during his proposal to her. It was clearly over-the-top, as far as his mom was concerned.

Bashing Her Ring

Bashing Her Ring

Finding Problems

Tracey then told her that it was Moissanite, which made it even more affordable than a diamond. “Tracey said to everyone, “She hates my engagement ring. “It’s far too extravagant, and CHILDREN STARVING IN AFRICA AND PEOPLE DIE FOR THESE ROCKS (moissanite) are here.”

Finding Problems

Finding Problems

Complaining About The House

Let us know what else she was going to have to complain about. She did not have nice words to tell about the house that they purchased, much like the bell. Tracey spoke of how Gina could not realize that so much money was being expended on it.

Complaining About The House

Complaining About The House

She Won’t Stop

“Tracey, however, defended their actions by saying that it was a “townhouse” that they got at a knock-off price, according to her, “It is an expensive show of luxury and really ‘is not us.’ This was not also the last one, though.

She Won't Stop

She Won’t Stop

Kindly Lose Some Weight

This next piece of critique will actually have been the final straw for certain persons. The fact that Tracey remained cool and held quiet was a positive thing. Gina then called her out and instructed her to lose a few pounds before the wedding day for her weight gain.

Kindly Lose Some Weight

Kindly Lose Some Weight

Throwing It In Her Face

“Tracey was sensible in the post and recounted, “I’m becoming fat. I need to look at the calories so that I can fit into my shirt. In the meantime, Future[MIL] is boasting about her food and how trendy and slim her mother is with the bride outfit.

Throwing It In Her Face

Throwing It In Her Face

Not The First Time

While Tracey was overwhelmed by these blunt phrases, it wasn’t the first time that Gina had thrown any shade at her. While Rick’s mother would attempt to stay in touch with the young lady from time to time, she would also criticize different items about her.

Not The First Time

Not The First Time

She Can’t Win

It was apparent that her potential mother-in-law did not agree with Rick’s flourishing relationship. Tracey was able to see that Gina tried to make her the sort of woman she wanted for her son. So she was trying to control Tracey at all costs.

She Can't Win

She Can’t Win

Leave Her Alone

It was a positive thing that Rick saw how things were getting out of hand between his mother and fiancée. Then he begged Tracey to “help him put the bed together in the spare guest room.”

Leave Her Alone

Leave Her Alone

The Moment She Couldn’t Believe

She was glad for the chance to keep Gina from further insulting her, so Tracey went to the room willingly and left behind Gina. But this young lady got the scare of her lifetime when, about half an hour after that time, she went to the master bedroom…

The Moment She Couldn't Believe

The Moment She Couldn’t Believe

Caught In The Act

Tracey had gone to her bedroom to take a rest from the shower, but she couldn’t believe the sight that awaited her there. Gina finds herself putting on a wedding robe! “She said, “What am I going to see except Future MIL trying to yank my dress off her head BUT WAS FREAKING STUCK?

Caught In The Act

Caught In The Act

She Nearly Fainted

“What the heck?!” I blurted out! ‘And she began to stammer suddenly,’ Oh my Goodness! God! Oh my God! GOD! My GOD! ” If you don’t think that’s insane enough, wait before you know what happened after this.

She Nearly Fainted

She Nearly Fainted

Be Careful

She had absolutely no patience for what she was staring at to be processed. She rushed over to Gina and ordered her to get out of the dress of Galia Lahav at that very moment. The older lady, though, was not able to get it off! Tracey has been working to help her come out of it.

Be Careful

Be Careful

She Had No Choice But To Help

“She said, “My number one worry at that stage was her ripping the sheer backing of my dress, so I ran over to assist her.” Stuff went very, very wrong for the two of them…

She Had No Choice But To Help

She Had No Choice But To Help

Torn And Dirty

It took an intense and hopeless fight for them to get it away from her. Unfortunately, when she saw what had happened to him, Tracey was shocked. “It was all for the sake of not being able to scratch her way through the back of the dress and destroy the sheer material completely,” she said.

Torn And Dirty

Torn And Dirty

It Was Ruined

“She broke the dress’s side zipper and got a dirty imprint on the train.” We can’t really fault her for the unbelief and anger she was experiencing at the moment. Then she switched to Gina, wondering why she was doing it.

It Was Ruined

It Was Ruined

At A Loss For Words

It should not come as a surprise to learn that after watching this, Tracey failed to talk. Since realizing what happened to her coat, she was just able to cup her head between her hands and choke back a cry.

At A Loss For Words

At A Loss For Words

A Step Too Far

Gina had caused her too much grief before, that yet for her, this was a step too far. She did not imagine that anything like this was really done by her. Let’s see what Gina was meant to suggest regarding the issue that Tracey asked…

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A Step Too Far

Making Sure It Fits

Tracey was confused and asked to explain that Gina was going to pull such a prank. “She said she was just trying to make sure the dress would fit me, because if the dress fit her, then it would fit me completely, too,” she said.

Making Sure It Fits

Making Sure It Fits

This Wasn’t An Excuse

If it won’t suit her, so I definitely had to make more effort.” Obviously, it was already tried on by Tracey.” The dress was just perfect for her. What did Rick have to suggest after having found out about this?

This Wasn't An Excuse

This Wasn’t An Excuse

Feeling Very Disturbed

Tracey isn’t the only one “very upset” about what had just happened to her. Rick felt overwhelmed by the behavior her mother showed. Especially because I doubt that she was really going to try on her dress for fun…

Feeling Very Disturbed

Feeling Very Disturbed

Playing Pretend

She said, “I think [she] was actually trying to pretend she was the bride… There was also a bouquet of dried flowers on the bed that wasn’t there before,” she said, Which is so false for so many reasons.” Can you believe that this was not the worst thing Gina did?”

Playing Pretend

Playing Pretend

Covering The Repairs

At least Tracey hoped that Gina will agree to pay the losses she incurred. Nevertheless, it appears like her standards were far too high for her potential mother-in-law. You’re not going to believe what your fiancé’s mother did next.

Covering The Repairs

Covering The Repairs

Something Up Her Sleeve

She wrote, “She hasn’t volunteered to compensate for all of the repairs to the outfit. A portion of the train has been broken away,’ she added. “I have no idea how much it is going to cost until tomorrow I can get to the seamstress.” And after her reluctance to pay for it, on that fateful day, Gina had something more up her sleeve.

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Something Up Her Sleeve

Not Apologetic

At least, you would have assumed that Gina would feel some regret about what she had achieved. She told the young lady, instead, that she wasn’t supposed to invest that much on her gown anyway.

Not Apologetic

Not Apologetic

Time To Act

For now though, she’s lecturing me about wasting too much money on a wedding dress instead of an apology,” Tracey said, “Clearly the difficulty she had in fitting into the dress was an indication of getting something less dramatic and ostentatious.” She decided it was time to come up with a plan.”

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Time To Act

Hearing From The Public

Obviously upset by what had just happened, she yet again took to Reddit. She began worrying about seeking civil action against Gina, but she needed to know what other people were thinking about it. She was looking forward to hearing from the audience.

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Hearing From The Public

Asking For Compensation

It looked like she might get reimbursement about what the elderly lady had done to her, for her. I know this is just a dress,” she said, “but it goes beyond a dress. There were several online users who shared their support for this initiative.

Asking For Compensation

Asking For Compensation

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